BELIEVERS AND CHRISTIAN FAMILIES?

    The  time has come to earnestly reconsider the assumptions, beliefs, and  teachings of "man's churches” compared to God’s pattern for His Church and Cristian Families.

    Dear Pastor, if you are one who is true to God (not denominational-ism), believe the foundational tenets of Christianity and are fully persuaded by the Spirit to remain where you are then do so remembering....

                                     FUNDAMENTALS OF CHRISTIANITY

Jesus is the Son of God and is equal with God.

John 1:1, 49; Luke 22:70; Mark 3:11;

Jesus was born of a virgin.

Matthew 1:18; Luke 1:26–35

Jesus lived a perfect, sinless life.

Hebrews 4:15; John 8:29)

Jesus was crucified to pay the penalty for our sins

Matthew 26:28;   Corinthians 15:2–4

Jesus rose from the dead.

Luke 24:46; Mark 16:6

We are  saved by the grace of God; that is, we cannot add to or take away from   Christ’s finished work on the cross as full payment for our sin.

Ephesians 2:8–9

The in-errancy of God’s Word

    If you pastor, or you church leader, "cannot affirm" the above seriously exam your standing before God and repent or resign from your position.

I write these things because their now are so many imposter's, deceivers,  compromisers, and teachers of false doctrine now deceiving many, whereby many are hindered from coming to the knowledge of Christ and God's message of Salvation. They have no shame and no fear of God to whom they shall give account of their lives upon the earth.

    Christ is the “cornerstone” and “foundation” of His Church and those within are His Family. God’s Church is Jesus Christ and Born Again Believers having the indwelling of the Holy Spirit “our true Teacher”, “our true Guide”, “our true Comforter” with Gods Written Word and the Testimony of His Creation.

    His Church is not constructed of wood, stone, bricks, steel, glass, not bound or restricted by mens churches, priesthoods, denominations, spiritual organizations, or any of mens self assumed spiritual authority.

No, none of that.

    Pastor - Consider this carefully. 1 Peter 2:4-10 KJV"

"To whom coming, as unto a living stone, disallowed indeed of men, but chosen of God, and precious, Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house, an holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices, acceptable to God by Jesus Christ. Wherefore also it is contained in the scripture, Behold, I lay in Sion a chief corner stone, elect, precious: and he that believes on him shall not be confounded. Unto you therefore which believe he is precious: but unto them which be disobedient, the stone which the builders disallowed, the same is made the head of the  corner, And a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offense, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient: where unto also they were appointed. But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his  marvelous light; Which in  time past were not a people, but are now the people of God: which had not obtained mercy, but now have obtained mercy."

    Does this mean God cannot reach souls in today's compromised churches? God Forbid.

    Scriptures testify that from the beginning God has used whomever or whatever circumstances He pleased to further His Eternal Plan for mankind. So it is today God may use any man, women, church, organization, condition, or sinner, to further His kingdom.

    NONETHELESS we are to follow God’s pattern for His Church not men’s churches, spiritual organizations or philosophies claiming self-assumed authority, whereby they exercise spiritual dominance over others. We are living in the age of deceptions, lies, and falling away of which we have been forewarned.

    The Prince of this world and his followers are now uniting to establish their End Of Days false World Religion. 


1. Stay where you are, preach the social activist gospel, accept false doctrine, and keep your paycheck in a back slid-en compromised church thereby supporting the Prince of this world and his followers.

2. Teach God's Word without compromise as long as you can until you are forced out. If you are employed by one of the mainline denomination that may be sooner than you think.

3. If you are fortunate to be in a Church that is committed to the Gospel of Jesus Christ continue your ministry not compromising the message of Chris staying true to the faith.

4. Make a decision and follow God’s Pattern for His Church and Family.

    If you choose not honor God's pattern for Church and Christian families you must ask yourself why don't "mans churches" teach men are foreordained by God to be the spiritual authority and leader in the home and are to , baptize their own children, bless members of the their family in sickness, give special blessings with the laying on of hands when they are in need of Gods guidances, establish a Bible study in the home, witness to and baptize members of there extended family, and many other matters which mans churches have appropriated to the church rather than following God's Pattern for the Family.

    This is what the Christian family is about and the way to raise Godly children and preserve the home. Seek God's Spirit and seriously Pray about these things. If God’s Church is not truly built upon Christ and “His Family of Born Again Believers”. Mans churches are not following Gods  pattern (”you are a chosen generation, a royal  priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people). Mans churches will not stand against the Prince and his follower. This is why Churches are being compromised, failing, and the family as God ordained (one man one women) is under attacked and being destroyed.

    The Prince of this world and his followers are attacking Believers who follow God's teachings related to marriage, fathers, mothers, children, and the extended family. Yes, even promoting the tearing apart of children in the womb over 50 million abortions since legalized in America not to mention the millions and millions throughout the world. And we can only guess how many more millions are being sacrificed to Satan by euthanasia, deliberately causing the sick and elderly to die.

                            CHOOSE THIS DAY WHOM YOU WILL SERVE


 1 Corinthians 3:11 ESV For no one can lay a foundation other than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.

Colossians 3:23  ESV Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.

Romans 12:1-21  ESV "I  beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye  present your bodies (ourselves) a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove (know for yourself) what is that good, and acceptable, and  perfect, will of God. For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; (priesthoods and desire to rule over others) but to  think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith. For as we have many members in one body, and all members have not  the same office: So we, being many, are one body in Christ, (God’s living Church of Born Again Believers having a Priesthood not of men but as Ordained By God and every one (Born Again Believers) adopted sons and daughters of the Living God. Having then  gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us (having abilities and spiritual gifts from God), whether prophecy, let us  prophesy according to the proportion of faith; Or ministry, let us wait  on our ministering: or he that teaches, on teaching; Or he that exhorts, on exhortation: he that gives, let him do it with simplicity; he that rules, with diligence; he that shows mercy, with cheerfulness".

    Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good. Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honor preferring one another; Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord; Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer; Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality.

    Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not. Rejoice with them that  do rejoice, and weep with them that weep. Be of the same mind one toward  another (in Christ). Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low  estate. Be not wise in your own conceits. Recompense to no man evil for evil. (God knows the minds and hearts of men and will do what is right.  He is our final arbitrator and will have mercy on whom He will have  mercy.) Provide for the widowed, orphan, poor and sick, and live  peaceably with all men.


How did we move from Gods Church to mans re-imaged version of church

    After the Apostles work was completed and first century Believers (as  foretold) were driven underground men established a church designed  after human systems and organizations, not God’s. This man re-imaged  church united with kings, tyrants, and political systems and together ruled the known world. The Political system captured and used the bodies  and energy of men while mans religions held captive the souls and minds  of men.

    For more than 1,500 years common men and women were keep in economic and physical slavery and spiritual darkness. Bibles were chained to alters, Priest dictated what was to be known and what was not to be known, common people were forbidden to read the Bible under threat of  punishment, including death. They were considered ignorant and unworthy and not allowed to read God’s Word for themselves.

    The  understanding of Gods forgiveness of sin, the reconciliation of mens souls through faith alone in Jesus Christ and the singular Authority of  Scripture, was hidden until the time of the Reformation. After which many “Protestant churches” were formed and the message of Salvation through Jesus Christ alone (not by works, not by praying to saints or Mary, not by Priest, or mans assumed authority) began to be proclaimed throughout he world.

Scriptures teach us, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith and not from yourselves, it is the gift of God not by works, so that no one can boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9). There is nothing we can do to earn God’s favor or gain access to heaven apart from His grace.

    Again what is God’s Pattern For His Church? Jesus Christ and Born Again Believers having the indwelling of  the Holy Spirit, our true Guide, our true Teacher, our true Comforter, along with God’s written Word and the Testimony of Creation. That is God’s Church as given in Scriptures and practiced by first century Christians. Believers are the Church of God “His own special people” and are per-ordained as priest not by other men, Churches, or so called spiritual organizations, but  by God as it is written: "You also, as living stones, are being built up a spiritual house, (A living church not of wood, stone, brick, steel  or glass,”) a holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ. But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness  into His marvelous light" 

(1 Peter 2:5-9).

    Which is to say: Believers are called "kings and priests" having a "royal priesthood", heirs to  the kingdom of God. Our salvation could never come by our own will, mans churches, mans priesthoods, mans denominations, spiritual leaders, or philosophical beliefs. No, none of that. Our salvation comes only through God’s vicarious act of taking upon Himself the sins of mankind, that we have gained the gift of salvation.

    In God’s pattern for His Church God's word is our authoritative guide (Sola scritura) along with God’s Holy Spirit”. Sola scriptura means Scripture alone are authoritative for the faith and the knowledge for us to live as Christians, and witnessing to others of God's Salvation. “All  Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness”

(2 Timothy 3:16).

    Believers  are to search and read scriptures for themselves and be found knowing  for themselves. That ability to “apprehend” God's purpose is gifted to each Believer by God through His Holy Spirit , our true Guide, our true Teacher,

our true Comforter, along with God’s written Word and Testimony of Creation”.

     What then are the consequences for not following God’s Pattern For His Church? Since the reformation many Christian Churches (Denominations) have came into existence organized after mans ways, not God’s. Each claiming authority from God (while excluding beliefs and the authority of others) who also establish their own priesthoods, particular beliefs, interpretations,  core doctrines, and traditions. Which sadly resulted in  denominational-ism with believers contending one against another, even violently, yes damming one another to hell. All of which Christ and  the Apostles strongly warned against.

    Mens churches, pastors, minister, church leaders, and seminaries, did not choose to follow God’s pattern for His Church. Mens Churches formed after first century A.D. in ignorance or deliberately for their own purposes, took upon themselves authority that was reserved and ordained by God who confirmed His Royal Priesthood upon Fathers as the spiritual leader of the home.

    This is a serious matter which I leave with you to ponder. Why did they go against God's way? What are the serious consequences from that time up until today? Read more on this topic in Gods Pattern for the Family and God's pattern for His Church and the Message of the  Vail.

    Why are  Church members leaving? Some leave being overcome by the things of the world and abandoned their faith. Others have openly accepted the Prince of this world, choosing to follow him. Others are put off by, Others are leaving because of fallen pastors, denominational-ism, hypocrisy, money, false teachings, unholy alliances, greed, lust for power, liberalism, bickering, the accommodation of sexual  perversion and abortion. In other words, the church has left them.



  • Most pastors are overworked.
  • Most pastors feel unprepared.
  • Many pastors struggle with depression and discouragement.
  • Their education and experience is wrapped up solely in the work of the ministry. 
  • So,  not only do pastors struggle with their choice to leave ministry, they  have to  worry about how they are going to feed their families.
  • Speaking of families, most pastor’s families are negatively impacted. 
  • Many pastors are lonely.
  • 50% of the ministers starting out will not last 5 years and it is estimated by some researches that 4,000 new churches begin each year while 7,000  churches close.

    These  condition speak for themselves. Working in ministry whether you’re a  full-time pastor or a lay minister, balancing a job and a church, can be challenging if not imposable. Families suffer, discouragement and depression (amongst a gamut of other things) runs like a river in the  lives of those who sacrifice their own life to the cause of the church.


    Another  organization that minister to ex-pastors explored the “whys” behind   those leaving the ministry in order to provide support and encouragement for those who have left or are considering calling it  quits.

  • Pastoral Care Reports the following:
  • Pastors report working between 55 to 75 hours per week.  
  • Feel they are on call 24/7.  
  • The  ministry has negatively affected their families. Many pastor's children  do not  attend church now because of what the church has done to their  parents.  
  • Pastors report being distant to their family. 
  • Pastors  report having their vacation and personal time interrupted with  ministry duties or expectations and that they have not taken enough  vacation time with their family over the last 5 years.
  • Struggle with feelings of guilt for taking personal time off and not telling the church. 
  • Report the demands of the church denies them from spending time with their family. 
  • There families resent the church and its effect on their family.  
  • Wives feel the ministry places undue expectations on their family.  
  • Church members expect a minister and family to live at a higher moral standard than themselves.  
  • Pastors report that the seminary did not prepare them for the ministry.  
  • The ministry was completely different than what they thought it would be.  
  • Spend 10-15 hours a week on sermon preparation.  
  • Pastors state they spend 1 hour in prayer each day.  
  • Pastors not praying daily or regularly “with their spouse”.   
  • State they do not receive a livable wage.
  • Concerned about their future family financial security.
  • Feel overworked and cannot meet their church's unrealistic expectations. 
  • Pastors expect conflict within their church.  
  • Spending 4-5 hours a week in needless meetings.  
  • Battle depression or fear of inadequacy.  
  • Report being over fatigued.  
  • Report they are spiritually undernourished.  
  • State the biggest challenge is to recruit volunteers and encourage their members to change (living closer to God's Word).
  • 34% of pastors wrestle with the temptation of pornography or visits pornographic sites.   
  • Pastors feel fulfilled but yet discouraged, stressed, and fatigued.   
  • Desire to have close fellowship with someone they can trust and confide with.  
  • Many pastors are unhealthy, overweight, and do not exercise.   
  • The profession of “Pastor” is near the bottom of a survey of the most-respected professions, just above “car salesman”.  
  • Denominations have a shortage of ministers desiring to fill the role of a pastor. 
  • Most churches have no plan for a pastor to receive a periodic sabbatical.  
  • Many churches have no lay counseling support.
  • Only 1 out of every 10 paster will actually retire as a pastor.

    Source: Pastoral Care Inc. Statistical percentages given for each of the concerns listed vary. However, even if they are half of what is being reported we cannot  minimize how they effect pastors, their families, their congregations,  and the negative image that is presented to Non-Believes.

    Pastor consider carefully:

How can a pastor or minister with a family truly be effective managing all of the above?The short answer is they cannot. Why? Because it can only be achieved by following the pattern of Gods Church.​​For  whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his  life for my sake shall find it. For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? For the Son of man shall come in the glory of his Father with his angels; and then he shall reward every man according  to his works. Matthew 16:25-27 (KJV)

    Given  what is written above can we also conclude: ”For what is a man profited,  if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own Family?”  

    What then will you do?
"Truth is  a lonely warrior, the battle not for the faint of heart, or those  lacking spiritual discernment." That said "It is the glory of God to  conceal a thing but the honor of kings (and each of us) is o search out a  matter." Proverbs 25:2 KJV


    A.W.  Tozer wrote: “The man or women” who has passed on into the divine Presence having an actual inner experience will not find many who understand him. A certain amount of social fellowship will of course be his as he mingles with religious persons in the regular activities of the church, but true spiritual fellowship will be hard to find. But he should not  expect things to be otherwise. After all he is a stranger and a  pilgrim, and the journey he takes is not on his feet but in his heart. He walks with God in the garden of his own soul – and who but God can walk there with him? He is of another spirit from the multitudes that tread the courts of the  Lord’s house. He has seen that of which they  have only heard, and he walks among them somewhat as Zacharias walked after his return from the altar when the people whispered, “He has seen a  vision.”

    The truly spiritual man is indeed something of an oddity. He lives not for himself but to promote the interests of Another. He seeks to persuade people to give all to his Lord and asks no portion or share for himself. He delights not to be honored but to see his Savior glorified in the eyes of men. His joy is to see his Lord promoted and himself neglected. He finds few who care to talk about that which is the supreme object of his interest, so he is often silent and preoccupied in the midst of noisy religious shoptalk. For this he earns the reputation of being dull and over serious, so he is avoided and the gulf between him and society widens. He searches for friends upon whose garments he can detect the smell of myrrh and aloes and cassia out of the ivory palaces, and finding few or none, he, like Mary of old, keeps these things in his heart. It is this very loneliness that throws him back upon God. “When  my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up.” His  inability to find human companionship drives him to seek in God what he can find nowhere else. He learns in inner solitude what he could not have learned in the crowd – that Christ is All in All, that He is made unto us wisdom, righteousness, sanctification and redemption, that in Him we have and possess life’s goodness.

    Two things remain to be said. One, that the lonely man of whom we speak is  not a haughty man, nor is he the holier-than-thou, austere saint so  bitterly satirized in popular literature. He is likely to feel that he  is the least of all men and is sure to blame himself for his very loneliness. He wants to share his feelings with others and to open his heart to some like minded soul who will understand him, but the spiritual climate around him does not encourage it, so he remains silent and tells his griefs to God alone.

    The second thing is that the lonely saint is not the withdrawn man who hardens himself against human suffering and spends his days contemplating the heavens. Just the opposite is true. His loneliness makes him sympathetic to the approach of the brokenhearted and the fallen and the sin-bruised. Because he is detached from the world, he is all the more able to help it.

    Meister Eckhart taught his followers that if they should find themselves in prayer and happen to remember that a poor widow needed food, they should break off the prayer instantly and go care for the widow. “God will not suffer you to lose  anything by it,” he told them. “You can take up again in prayer where you left off and the Lord will make it up to you.” This is typical of the great mystics and masters of the interior life from Paul to the present day."

    The  weakness of so many modern Christians is that they feel too much a  home in the world. In their effort to achieve restful “adjustment” to unregenerate society they have lost their pilgrim character and become an essential part of the very moral order against which they are sent to protest. The world recognizes them and accepts them for what they are. And this is the saddest thing that can be said about them. They are not lonely, but neither are they saints. A.W. Tozer


    Billy Graham’s son, Franklin Graham is telling the sad truth about America!

Time  is like a river. You cannot touch the water twice, because the flow  that has passed will never pass again. Franklin Graham was speaking at the First Baptist Church in Jacksonville, Florida, when he said America will not come back.

    "The American dream ended on November 6th, 2012. The second term of Barack Obama has been the final nail in the coffin for the legacy of the white Christian males who discovered, explored, pioneered, settled and developed the greatest republic in the history of mankind. A coalition of blacks, Latinos, feminists, gays, government workers, union  members, environmental extremists, the media, Hollywood, uninformed young people, the "forever needy," the chronically unemployed, illegal aliens and other "fellow travelers" have ended Norman Rockwell's America. You will never again out-vote these people. It will take  individual acts of defiance and massive displays of civil disobedience to get back the rights we have allowed them to take away. It will take zealots, not moderates and shy, not reach-across-the-aisle RINOs to right this ship and restore our beloved country to its former status. 


    People like me are completely politically irrelevant, and I will probably never again be able to legally comment on or concern myself with the aforementioned coalitions which has surrendered our culture, our heritage and our traditions without a shot being fired. The Cocker  Spaniel is off the front porch, the pit bull is in the back yard, The American Constitution has been replaced with Saul Alinsky's "Rules for Radicals" and the likes of Chicago shyster David Axelrod along with international socialist George Soros have been pulling the strings on their beige puppet and have brought us Act 2 of the New World Order.  

    The curtain will come down but the damage has been done, the story has been told. Those who come after us will once again have to risk their lives, their fortunes and their sacred honor to bring back the Republic that this generation has timidly frittered away due to white guilt and  political correctness".

By: Billy Graham’s son, Franklin Graham is telling the sad truth about America!


                                  As the End Of Days approaches.




       Will we make the same mistake Israel did as documented in God's Word?

    1 Samuel 8 New International Version (NIV) "So all the elders of Israel gathered together and came to Samuel at Ramah. They said to him, “You are old, and your sons do not follow your ways; now appoint a king to lead us, such as all the other nations have.”But  when they said, “Give us a king to lead us,” this displeased Samuel; so he prayed to the Lord. And the Lord told him: “Listen to all that the people are saying to you; it is not you they have rejected, but they  have rejected me as their king. As they have done from the day I brought them up out of Egypt until  this day, forsaking me and serving other gods, so they are doing to you. Now listen to them; but warn them solemnly and let them know what the king who will reign over them will  claim as his rights.”

    Samuel told all the words of the Lord to the people who were asking him for a king. He said, “This is what the king who will reign over you will claim as his rights:


  • He will take your sons and make them his servants,
  • He will use them in his armies,
  • He will use them as farmers (or as the king orders),
  • He will use them to make weapons of war,
  • He will use your daughters,
  • He will take the best of your lands and vineyards and give them to his official and followers,
  • He will tax you and you will become his slaves,

    Then you will cry out for relief from the king you have chosen, but the Lord will not answer you in that day.”

    But the people refused to listen to Samuel. “NO!” they said. “We want a  king over us. Then we will be like all the other nations, with a king to lead us and to go out before us and fight our battles.” When  Samuel heard all that the people said, he repeated it before the Lord. The Lord answered, “Listen to them and give them a king.”

    So now here we are in 2019 with government and religious leaders who view themselves as kings over us who are now forming a world government and religion.

If Mans Churches, ministers, and like minded followers continue down the path they are on, the Prince of this world and his followers will be pleased and grateful for their choosing not to oppose him. Which by default is to say, THEY APPROVED AND SUPPORTED HIM.

                                 Will we make the same mistake as Israel?


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